Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Everything I Need to Know

Yesterday, Grace stayed with me. Around lunch we had this conversation:
"ZiZi, are we going to school tomorrow?"
"Yes, Grace. School starts back tomorrow."
"Why?"
"Well, it's just the day Mrs. Angela set for school to start back."
"But, I mean, what will we do?"
"What do you mean? I guess we'll just keep on learning."
"But ZiZi, I already learned everything! I know all the letters, all the numbers to 100, and the Bible verses."

Wouldn't that be absolutely wonderful? If only life were that simple. Ever since that talk, I've been thinking of something I read once. It's not mine, and it's not new, but it's so, so true. If you've read it before, it'll still make you think. I hope you enjoy...and thanks to all the little ones who are so full of their own special kind of wisdom.


All I Ever Really Needed to Know I Learned in Kindergarten- by Robert Fulghum

Most of what I really need to know about how to live, and what to do, and how to be, I learned in Kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate school mountain, but there in the sandbox at nursery school.

These are the things I learned: Share everything. Play fair. Don't hit people. Put things back where you found them. Clean up your own mess. Don't take things that aren't yours. Say you're sorry when you hurt somebody. Wash your hands before you eat. Flush. Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you. Live a balanced life. Learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work some every day.

Take a nap every afternoon. When you go out into the world, watch for traffic, hold hands, and stick together. Be aware of wonder. Remember the little seed in the plastic cup. The roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we are all like that.

Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and even the little seed in the plastic cup - they all die. So do we.

And then remember the book about Dick and Jane and the first word you learned, the biggest word of all: LOOK . Everything you need to know is in there somewhere. The Golden Rule and love and basic sanitation, ecology and politics and sane living.

Think of what a better world it would be if we all - the whole world - had cookies and milk about 3 o'clock every afternoon and then lay down with our blankets for a nap. Or if we had a basic policy in our nation and other nations to always put things back where we found them and clean up our own messes. And it is still true, no matter how old you are, when you go out into the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together.

3 comments:

Lauren said...

Oh so true! Grace has a wealth of wisdom! She asked me on the way home what murder meant. I started explaining and before I finished, I asked her where she heard it. She said, "you know that story with the 2 men. One killed the other with a rock. He made him murdered." :)

Lisa Williams said...

Sounds just like her! We had a talk this morning about consequences and privileges...all because a pretend child in the back seat told a fib and she had to figure out what to do about it.

Rachel said...

Gosh, she is so good at making you think. Thanks for sharing - you girls are very blessed!!